Every person will need to find four people in
>their lives. The First person is you. The Second
> person is the one you love most. The Third
> person is the one who love you most. And the
> Fourth is the one you spend the rest of your life
> with.
>
> In life, firstly you will meet with the one you
> love most, and learn how love feels. Because you
> know how love feels, so you can find the person
> who loves you most. When you have experienced the
> feeling of loving others and being loved, you
> will then know what it is you need most. Then you
> will find the person who is most suitable for
> you, to be able to spend the rest
>of your life with.
>
> Sadly, in real life, these three people are
> usually not the same person.
> The one you love most doesn't love you. The one,
> who loves you most, is never the one you love
> most. And the one you spend your life with, is
> never the one you love most or the one who loves
> you most. He is just the person who happens to be
> at the right place at the right time. Which
> person are you in other people's life?
>
> No person will purposely have a change of heart.
> At the point in time when
> he loves you, he really loves you. But when he
>doesn't love you anymore, he really doesn't love
> you anymore. When he loves you, he can't pretend
> that he doesn't. Same goes, when he loves you no
> more, there's no way he can pretend he loves you.
>
> When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave
> you. You must ask yourself if you still love him,
> If you also don't love him anymore, do not
> keep him just to save your pride. If you still
> love him, you should wish him happiness, and hope
> that he will be with the one he loves most, not
>stop him from it. If you stop him from finding
> true happiness with the one he loves, it shows
> you already don't love him, And if you don't love
> him, what rights do you have to blame him for a
> change of heart?
>
> Love is not possessive, if you like the moon, you
> can't just take it down and put it in your basin.
> But the moonlight still shines upon you. In other
> words, when you love a person, you can use
> another method of possessing the person. Let him
>become a permanent memory in your life. If you
>really love a person, you must love him for what
> he is. Love him for his good points, and the bad.
> You can't wish for him to become like what you
> like him to be just because you love him. If he
> can't change to become what you like him to be,
> you don't love him anymore. When you really love
> a person, you cannot find a reason why you love
>him, you only know that no matter when and where,
> good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this
> person be with you.
>
> Real love is when two people can go through the
> toughest problems without asking for promises or
>listing criteria. In a relationship, you have to
>put in effort and give in at times, and not
always be on the receiving end. Being away from
each other is a type of test. If the relationship
isn't strong, then you can only admit defeat.
Real love will never become hate.